Memoirs of a Socialite: Who is Tha Urban Socialite?

U know a few weeks ago I had my 10 class reunion. It was pretty funny because tho I looked similar to what I did Senior year.... I am a completely different person. Back then That Jason's biggest life experience was maybe Prom Night.. Now Today's Jason is an Urban Socialite.

So what does that mean exactly?

I'm the Life of the Party instead of the wall flower I used to be. I'm fun. I'm a good time kinda guy. If u look thru pictures of me I'm always laughin and havin a good time. I'm a happy man. I mean I REALLY am HAPPY. This point of my life all I do is laugh. Too many people take life too serious. Lets take a minute and CUT IT OUT!!! Relax Relate Release.

Where did "Tha Urban Socialite" Come from?

All I can say is DESTINY.......

Mini Blog: The Dating Game

Hi my name is Jason. I'm a 27 year old single black male secure and happy with myself but life was meant for 2... I enjoy long walks on the beach, candlelit dinners, traveling, and my dog.....

LMAO!!!

Yeah right. I enjoy Fine dinning, Credit scores above 720, Property owners, and Range Rovers.

FYI: I'm really not placing a online dating ad, but I came across one that inspired all this. Those things crack me up. U know I don't really believe in online dating.... at least not for me.

Memoirs of a Socialite: Who shot CUPID?

Am I the only one that's ok with not being in love? I mean what is love? And what the HELL is the big fuss over it? To the point that ur FUCKin obsessing over it? I've been there and ITS OVERRATED!!! I think back and laugh about it now.... but then, this was a kinda of dying to me. Losing the one person I had TRULY loved, and still loved more than anything was unfathomable to me.

I say FUCK it. FUCK finding it, FUCK questioning it, and FUCK obsessing over it. If we spent half the time investing in (and improving) ourselves as we do looking for love how much better would we be as people? I think back to a time when I was actually in love, that's all I thought about. I skipped class for love, left work early for love, missed important events..... LOVE TOOK OVER. What kinda life is that? My relationship went bad for all sorts of reasons, but not because I'm a screwup. I made LOVE the most important part of life..... I lost myself.

Now I know when u read this I'm gonna sound Jaded and bitter. I not!!! I'm far from it. I'm Happy. I mean my life isn't perfect.... BUT ITS MINE. Its not consumed by other things. I'm living it instead of chasing after it... I mean a heart can be broken, but it still keeps beating just the same. Right? Its the only broken instrument that can still work.

So what am I saying? Heartbreaks? U can get over those. But can u really deal with the fact that u spent ur life waiting for this one thing to find u, and in the mean time accomplish nothing? At some point or another life will break ur heart, but u have the ability to mend it. U have the ability and right to live deliberately and joyfully.

U make these decision.....

Memoirs of a Socialite: Random ME!!!

My life goes in so many different directions....

I am RANDOM!!!

Hello! Nice to meet u.

From what I eat, to the clothes on my back, to the shoes on my FEET (size 17 odd right?).... never "normal." Even when I was growing up.... Its just always been this way. I've always been the odd one. With my siblings I was the short light one..... In school I was the short fat one..... (geeeeez)

But U know what? I'M ME!!!!!!

24/7! 365!

I am exactly who I'm supposed to be.

Its funny because in this stage of my life I still know people trying to FIND THEMSELVES. But I know who Jason is.... I know exactly who I am. What kinda life is that for them tho? To be in your 30's and 40's and not know who u are. The person u've grown up with. YOURSELF!!!! All that time together and U don't know u yet? DAMN SHAME. Like my heart goes out to u. Ur lost in the world with no identity. Just mimicking the identity others have plotted out for u. Ur life sucks. I mean REALLY!!!

Well NO questions here!!! I'm JASON...........

Memoirs of a Socialite: Summer 2010

I'm havin the time of my life. I've reconnected with old friends. Made new friends. Got rid of so called friends. This summer has been good to me. U know I look back on summers past and I think how many times I miss out on or passed up opportunities to do exactly what I wanted to do for the sake of making others happy. Weather it be a friend or boo. I was the go with the flow kinda guy.

That ship has sailed. I'm 27 single healthy and ready to take the world over. I'm doin exactly what I wanna do. This is MY SUMMER!!! lol @ myself for never being single thru a whole summer before. It is what it is tho.... I wanna travel. I wanna kick it with MY FRIENDS. I wanna do all the things I missed out on. U know what, I think I'm gonna get me a ticket to see the blue man group for my birthday. And Dependin on what time I get outta work today I might just treat myself to movie. U know the ones that no one else wanted to go see with me....

My point is I'm not gonna let life pass me by any longer. Its too short.

Selfish party of one..... Ur table is ready and the view is GREAT.......

Mini Blog: Crush on u

Am I too old to have a crush? After a certain age is it called sumthin different? Let me know sumthin. I don't wanna be out here lookin foolish....... LMAO

Memoirs of a Socialite: FlashBack

I thought I was ok.... Realizing I made a mistake. I've been dong some thinking.... Every since I saw u that day.... MAYBE I said somethings I didn't mean trying to change ur ways. But my day ain't the same. Maybe I shoulda stayed. I had a ...... flashback. I really love u. So sad. Thought I was over u. Too fast. I wish I could re-live the past. Baby FLASHBACK. The mistakes u made weren't that bad. Now that I saw u I want u back. I wish I could re-live the past. BaBY flashback.

I wish that I could get back with u now. Don't wanna see another nigga around. All these memories... Thought I had u outta my mind. I keep tryin I keep tryin. And it won't stop... These flashbacks. I don't want that. I just wanna go back where u messed up and erase that. I'm trippin. I'm in a ZONE.... Its nothin but a Flashback. I really love u. So sad. Thought I was over u. Too fast. I wish I could re-live the past. FLASHBACK FLASHBACK. The mistakes u made weren't that bad. Now that I saw u I want u back.. I wish I could re-live the past. BAby FlashBack.

U would call, come pick me up.... Take me somewhere no one knows. Oceans candle lights. Lay me down and take it slow. Unexpected messages just to say "Hey Beautiful"Gave me attention . Made sure that u kept me close...... but its over now. But Its Over Now...

Flashback, I really love u. So sad. Thought I was over u. Too fast. I wish I could re-live the past. Baby flashback. The mistakes u made weren't that bad. Now that I saw u I want u back. I wish I could re-live the past...... baby flashback.............

(.........just Thinkin out loud in my head)

Mini Blog: Dear Hater

Because I'm grown I can say what I want. I can do what I want. I live my life with no apologies and no regrets. If I'm feelin some kinda way I'mma say it. That's my right. Its called freedom of speech. U may not like everything, but sweetie everything wasn't meant for u anyway.

Memoirs of a Socialite: Where did my BABY Go?

Do u remember good music? I mean GOOD music. What happened? Music used to be my Homie Lover Friend...... Now its just there. Where did we go wrong? Have u sat and just watched the videos on Mtv or BET? Or just listened to the radio? I mean "Teach me how to Duggie?" What the FUCK are u talking about? Who is Duggie?

Sometimes I wanna sit back and sing to the song..... Or snap my fingers to the beat. I can't right now. I mean this music SUCKS. Don't get me wrong we still got a few cool people: Drake, Nicki Minaj, Jazmine Sullivan, Beyonce (once in a while), John Legend, and of course Janet. But what about some good ol' baby makin music? What if I'm in the mood for a lil Soul? Who do I have besides Jill Scott?

And GOD, Lets not even start in on Hip-Hop. Who ever thought the day would come when Ludacris would have more popular songs then and other Artist on the hip hop charts?

I dare someone to sit thru an hour of radio tomorrow on one station and list out at least 10 good songs. And I'm talkin new stuff not old school.

John Legend said it best:

"Where did my baby go? I wonder where she ran off to. I miss my baby so.... Just what am I supposed to do? Please tell that girl if u meet her, that someones longing to see her. Where did my baby go? I wish that she would get back soon."

I miss u Music...... Come back home.

Memoirs of a Socialite: Designer IMPOSTER

OK.... Call me what u want but I gotta get this off my chest.

So its the holiday weekend and I'm enjoyin my time with friends and family, when I get this text about an "ex". "I heard ur 'ex' did this and that, said this and that." But wait... WE NEVER DATED!!!

Lets set the record STR8. We've never dated. What we did I would never classify as a relationship. I mean really? Head a couple times in my car.... No romance there. Cut it out. Stop it!!! What are u tyring to do? Gain some type of "clout" in the community by tellin people u "pulled" me. U didn't sweetheart. U were merely something to DO. Literally!!! I mean when it comes to dating I have options. And trust me ur not one of them.....

I know this sounds really mean... But it is what it is. I hate when people feel the need to run around talkin shit behind my back. Then when they see u they don't say two words. Won't part their lips or make eye contact for fear of confrontation. Let it go. Get a life. UR OWN!!! We never dated sweetie. I mean I'm flattered, but I just was never that into U....